Anti-Valentines Day

So it looks like I will be spending Valentine's Day with Jordy J this year, and trust me, I'm not mad about it at all.  I ordered her skates and we are going skating to celebrate! If you are single on Valentine's Day, please don't spend the entire day feeling sad or depressed when you see all of your co-workers receive gifts or flowers. I actually considered sending my ex something just to let him know " Hey,No hard feelings" but fuck all of that!!!! I think I would do better by sending the person who has been healing my open wounds something special. Anyway I just wanted to share some things you should not do tomorrow if you are single....

Single-Awarness Day

1. Please do not watch Lifetime, Oxygen, or any station that will do full marathons of chic flicks and romance novel turned movies...its not a good look.

2. Do not call an ex under any circumstances

3. Steer clear of male/female bashing friends, this is not healthy

4. Kill the alcohol! Alcohol is a depressant so after you come down, you will get in your feelings and make drunk phone calls or texts (refer to # 2)

5. Whatever you decide to do make it fun, hell you have been single for 45 days this year, so why trip off of one day?

Me and the love of my life!!!!

I'M BACKKKKKKK!!!!!!

It's good to be back...so the last week for me has been pretty good.  I got to kick it with my family for SuperBowl Sunday, and I also attended a Parkway Reunion which was off da chain! Shouts out to Parkway West c/o 2000...c/o 1999 you guys can have a honorable mention. So why am I up at 2:30 in the morning? The usual insomnia, too much emotional garbage in my head, thus preventing me from sleeping. I am happy for the eight followers that I have, but one of you is VERY, how shall i say this, SUSPECT??

Anyway my focus this week is : To become a better listener

I have learned that to become a good listener, it is important for me to understand things that were preventing me from being a good listener in the first place. When I am very passionate about something it is a habit for me not to listen if you are talking about something that I disagree with. This month I will try to not let my attitude about the speaker or my personal feelings about what they are saying, interfere with my listening. I challenge you this week to find one weakness that you have and turn it into something that you can excel at.

I am going to try to make this blog as positive as I can, it's a challenge though.  It is much easier to express negative thoughts, more so than positive ones.  But I don't mind working on self-improvement one day at a time...are you up for the challenge?